Life, Love, Connections, Relationships

"I love working with individuals and couples to strengthen connections and create deeper intimacy in their relationships. I am especially mindful of those who are struggling in their relationships and can't seem to find a way forward. I know what it is like to be "stuck" and feel the overwhelming frustration of not knowing how to fix a damaged or broken connection. My 25 year marriage and countless hours of working with couples (and individuals) has taught me that there is always hope, if two people are willing to take an honest look inside and find the strength to do the work of improving themselves and their relationship. For those just coming out of a difficult relationship, there is so much wisdom that can be gained from that experience. If you find that wisdom and apply it, it can elevate and prepare you for healthier and more fulfilling relationships in the future. If you feel that you would like to connect with us, please send us a message by clicking the "contact us" button or call the number below. I am happy to speak with you about your situation at no charge and without obligation. ~ Aaron

Areas of Focus

Strengthening Marriages & Repairing Relationships

The hardships of life can take a toll on even the strongest of relationships. Whether it is personal loss, financial struggles, family responsibilities, sexual tensions, loss of trust, lack of connection and myriad other life challenges, any of these things can creep into a relationship and strain it to the breaking point. When two people have invested so much blood, sweat, tears, time, emotion, energy, and resources to a relationship, every effort should be made to try and save it. We have witnessed many couples on the brink of divorce, transform themselves and their marriage. This is one of the most rewarding experiences for us as relationship guides. If you are struggling to keep your relationship alive, please reach out to us. We are so very willing to assist in any way that we can.

Assisting Individuals to Have Deeper Connections and Relationships

Improving and strengthening relationships takes work, but the the rewards are definitely worth the effort! Whether it's a relationship with a romantic partner, a family member, or a business associate, we would love to share some tools that you can use to transform these connections. With some work and effort you can find greater inner strength and new perspectives that will help you connect more deeply with others. We can assist with recognizing "why" you act or behave in a certain way and what the deeper meaning of that behavior is. This realization can lead to a powerful shift in perspective and mindset for you. It often times will move you to want to make adjustments in the way you live your life and interact with others.

We love to be part of this process and are so excited when we see the joy and fulfillment this process can bring.

Sexuality & Intimacy

One of the most powerful bonds in a relationship is "true intimacy." Intimacy is so much more than just sex! We define true intimacy as "having complete closeness with your partner, having nothing that comes between you, to have complete and utter openness, no secrets, complete trust, complete vulnerability, to see and accept each other as you are." When this level of intimacy is combined with the sexual expression of your love for each other, it can elevate and transform every aspect of your relationship. This may sound like a lofty goal, but it is definitely one worth pursuing. We have worked with many couples who struggle with sexual desire, expression, connection, performance, morality, and of course intimacy. We are very open about speaking with couples about sexual feelings and challenges. All shared feelings are kept confidential and are between you and your relationship guide.

Healing After Broken Relationships

Healing after a close relationship comes to an end can be a very long and painful process. It can leave you feeling abandoned, damaged, and alone. You find yourself having to pick up the pieces and move forward on your own. This is the time when you need to know that you are NOT alone. For over 20 years, we have been helping individuals who find themselves in these circumstances. We assist them in their journey to learn more about themselves and create deep connections and meaningful relationships.

Open Communication and Understanding One Another

In ALL relationships, communication is key! Some individuals struggle to feel comfortable sharing deep feelings or ideas. There can be many reasons for this including trust issues, embarrassment, or just not having the "vocabulary" to express what they are feeling. Often times anger, pride or resentment can shut down the lines of communication in a relationship.

Others may not find it difficult to share feelings, but struggle to do it in a positive or respectful way. If you are experiencing challenges with having real and meaningful conversations with a relationship partner, we'd love to assist you! Often times, having a relationship guide to help you recognize and implement effective ways to communicate, can have an immediate effect on the way you connect with your partner.

Enneagram Typing

Are you interested in really understanding yourself and others?

The Enneagram is a personality framework that can help us understand why we do what we do (the hidden reasons for our behavior). It can also help you to see your "blind spots" and be more self-aware. The Enneagram can help us transform our relationships by increasing our ability to see and understand other's positive motives and points of view.

Our Purpose

We love working with individuals to achieve a deep and lasting transformation in themselves and their relationships. This transformation can happen when we are ready to take an honest look at "how" we see ourselves and others, identify the reasons "why" we do the things that we do, and by increasing our own self-awareness. As we gain a better understanding of our personality, values, beliefs, motives, and perceptions, we can begin to reframe the way we see ourselves, others and the world we live in. That is the first step to making meaningful transformation in our lives. We are here to help guide you through this "discovery" process and beyond! Our goal is to work with you to build and maintain lasting connections and relationships that will bring you joy and happiness in your life.

3 Simple Ideas for Keeping the "SPARK" Alive!

Life is busy....especially for couples with kids, careers, friends and hobbies! Keep the spark alive by creating quality "connection time" with each other. It doesn't take an expensive outing or an extravagant setting to make it "quality" time." We have tons of suggestions if you are looking for ideas on how to create new ways to spend time together.

Make Time for Each Other Make the Relationship your #1 Priority

Sometimes, an unexpected kiss, compliment, night out, or even a bouquet of flowers can start a spark in even the coldest relationships. Don't underestimate the power of spontaneity to turn up the "heat" in the relationship and the bedroom! These random acts can let your partner know you still have the "spark" for them!

Do Something Unexpected A Spontaneous Act of Kindness or Romance can be a huge "Turn On"

Couples thrive when they come together to do something that they both love. Whether it's reading the same book, golfing, cooking, exercising, serving, art, roller blading... it doesn't matter as long as you both truly enjoy doing it together. Couples that find this "common cause" to unite in, find that it transforms their friendship and every aspect of the relationship!

Find a Hobby You Both Enjoy Doing "something you love" together will deepen your connection and unite you in a common cause

Aaron & Leslie

Coaches & Mentors

Life, Love, Connections, Relationships

Areas of Focus

Our Purpose

3 Simple Ideas for Keeping the "SPARK" Alive!

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